I wonder sometimes why people want to look like others, why they want to gain weight or loose to get that zero figure ?? Is it the basic human nature, that always makes us crave for what we don't have?
Why want to copy someone's style or be what others are ?
I see so many bloggers trying to imitate someone's dressing style and life to make them look like someone they are not.
I believe everyone of us is born with a personality and a characteristic that only we have and which generalize us from others. It is something nobody else can take it from you, it's in-born and trust me it's unique. One must love himself/herself more than anything else in the world, and feel confident in their own skin.
There was a phase in my life where I wanted to look like somebody or be like one, the model who was on the cover page of a famous fashion magazine. I felt I needed o look different, may be gain weight or dress up in a particular manner, but it was not too late until I realized that I am what I am and I love it and everything about myself and there is nothing I would want to change. And that's when people also told me the same, I always had a unique style in my college days and I used to get compliments too, I was even crowned as the "Most Stylish" in the first year of my college.
I have never loved myself as much as I do now, I am proud of myself for being able to give birth to a healthy baby because I wan't starving to get a zero figure, not that I diet or do not eat junk food, it just somehow got balanced. After all I cannot deny the face that I love to eat, and have a sweet tooth (which I must start controlling over now), and I can never go on harsh, green, oat diets to get slim.
I feel happy and confident in my own skin (Yes, I want to loose the baby fat ) and that's something I would advise you all too, specially the young girls out there who are struggling to achieve something which does not matter at all, coz all that matters is your happiness.
Have a lovely weekend !!
xo, Kanchan
Why want to copy someone's style or be what others are ?
I see so many bloggers trying to imitate someone's dressing style and life to make them look like someone they are not.
I believe everyone of us is born with a personality and a characteristic that only we have and which generalize us from others. It is something nobody else can take it from you, it's in-born and trust me it's unique. One must love himself/herself more than anything else in the world, and feel confident in their own skin.
There was a phase in my life where I wanted to look like somebody or be like one, the model who was on the cover page of a famous fashion magazine. I felt I needed o look different, may be gain weight or dress up in a particular manner, but it was not too late until I realized that I am what I am and I love it and everything about myself and there is nothing I would want to change. And that's when people also told me the same, I always had a unique style in my college days and I used to get compliments too, I was even crowned as the "Most Stylish" in the first year of my college.
I have never loved myself as much as I do now, I am proud of myself for being able to give birth to a healthy baby because I wan't starving to get a zero figure, not that I diet or do not eat junk food, it just somehow got balanced. After all I cannot deny the face that I love to eat, and have a sweet tooth (which I must start controlling over now), and I can never go on harsh, green, oat diets to get slim.
I feel happy and confident in my own skin (Yes, I want to loose the baby fat ) and that's something I would advise you all too, specially the young girls out there who are struggling to achieve something which does not matter at all, coz all that matters is your happiness.
LOVE YOURSELF AND JUST BE HAPPY NO MATTER WHAT
Jeans : Marks & Spencer
Bag : Lacoste ( here )
Necklace & Earrings : Forever21
Pearl Bracelets : Aldo
Aviators : Ray-ban ( similar here )
xo, Kanchan
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Love this write up, we are born differently and there's no reason to want to look like someone else or copy someone else's style. Maybe social media is to blame. Lovely outfit btw.
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