What is life?
Well, where to begin? Since the day we are born till the die we take our last breath everything that happens to us is a mystery. As a baby we barely know anything but the beauty is that we are happy, either crying, sleeping or waiting for the next sip of milk. Sometimes I feel that is the most happy we can ever be - it is when we have no expectations, demands, needs, desires, emotions of pain, fear, jealousy, hatred. It is all in the eyes of our mother , coz that is the only world we know and see.
We have no purpose, dreams or goals yet life is beautiful - colors make us smile, light, sounds, birds, humans except when they are not scary basically every noun and verb brings a smile or sometimes a tear.
Then we turn into a toddler who wants everything all at once and nothing at times. It might be the most fun stage of life also soft and vulnerable. Your mid 30's is when you realize everything happened for a reason, what life is, what your goals are and what exactly do you want in life.
It is strange to know that every person we meet in life came for a reason and leaves when it is time also for a reason.
Do you ever feel the need to not have anyone in your life? Or do you want that one person beside you who makes you feel alive and if that person is there you don't need anything else. Nothing else matters just except that face.
Life they say is a rollercoaster, some call it a mystery, while some just call it a motive. I will tell you what life is - when you are living in the moment and consciously doing what you love and doing what your heart tells you to do. Life is not to be thought of but to be enjoyed everyday - when I say enjoy it does not mean to go on a holiday, to a restaurant or to the mall but choosing yourself over every other person and situations that drain you. Anything that costs you your piece of mind is something you must avoid at all costs. It took me 37 years to come to terms with it and understand why and what adds stress to my life. It is also the worry that we have for tomorrow even though we do not even know if we are going to wake up the next morning. The worry of what ifs - what if they won't understand, what if they don't answer your call, what if they don't buy what you are saying, what if your friend misunderstands you, what if I don't pass the test, what if I don't clear the interview, what if my relative thinks I am overdressed, what if they think we are irrational. All these what ifs are completely result of our own thoughts and literally have zero impact on the outcome but we are human and we are full of errors mora than the computers.
The only thing that is in our hands - is our actions, behaviour and thoughts. These are the only things we can control or change, then why don't we just do us. Life is getting wasted every second we think about others, we should rather be thinking of making our life smooth, our present better, every moment happier and calm. And that is only possible when we do not overthink.
Let life be Life do not make it a hard challenge or a task or like a puzzle you have been assigned to solve. Do not complicate and overthink coz it does nothing except makes you worry. Worrying is further linked to a million diseases and the most important being ageing - I mean who wants to look old, have fine lines, wrinkle and be sick.
Peace is priceless, nature is therapy, health is the real wealth and happiness is a habit.
Life is all about growing through experiences, learning from your mistakes but also making mistakes and letting loose. You cannot always predict everything, every outcome and take steps as there will be hurdels and obstacles and if you keep thinking about that you cannot move closer to your goal.
Life is to be lived, to be felt, moments spent with friends that make you laugh, with family that make you wanna be a child again, with nature that makes you want to be an explorer, all this and more.
Time waits for no-one we have all heard that but have you heard time is the same for all and the only difference is some people make the most of it and some just waste it doing nothing and overthinking.
Do what makes you happy, coz if you are happy from within only then will you be able to focus on the present, do what you like, live your life like it's a party.
So yes, nobody can DECODE - LIFE for you, but guide you to live it in a way better manner.
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